>Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- Hommes sans l'amour comme motos bi`nh bi.ch sans bu-zis !
> >Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- > Hommes sans l'amour comme motos bi`nh bi.ch sans bu-zis !
> Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can be the force that could move one to do thing beyond imagination :))))
having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of others ...
NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> >Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- > Hommes sans l'amour comme motos bi`nh bi.ch sans bu-zis !
> :-)))))))
hahahaha ... Pooh ma` ho?ng co' gi` thi` mo+'i la`m Nga nga.c nhie^n ho +n ddo' ...
> > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > imagination :))))
> having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > others ...
> NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > imagination :))))
> > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > others ...
> > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > that?
are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be be' la^.n ... :))
falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... you might lose that person ...
ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or do that ... for me!!'
that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something else either ...
i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > imagination :))))
> > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > others ...
> > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > that?
> are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > be' la^.n ... :))
> falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > you might lose that person ...
> ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > do that ... for me!!'
> that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > else either ...
> i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > they are both equally important to me :)
> hy vo.ng Nga dda~ tra? lo+`i ddu+o+.c pha^`n na`o ca^u ho?i cu?a > ba'c ...
> nn
> ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to be in because afraid of being hurt). Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in the nursing home, as well :-))
On Sun, 8 Nov 2009 19:16:09 -0800 (PST), nttn <nttn1...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" >feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to >give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... >you might lose that person ...
>ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
>i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or >do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > others ...
> > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > that?
> > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > you might lose that person ...
> > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > do that ... for me!!'
> > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > else either ...
> > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > hy vo.ng Nga dda~ tra? lo+`i ddu+o+.c pha^`n na`o ca^u ho?i cu?a > > ba'c ...
> > nn
> > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > be in because afraid of being hurt). > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > the nursing home, as well :-))
da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m nhe' ... :)
Nga dda~ ba('t dda^`u go~ go~ the^m va`i ddie^`u dde^? share vo+'i ba'c ... tuy nhie^n nghi~ la.i ... ca'i topic na`y thi` cha('c ai cu~ng dda~ tra?i qua ro^`i cho ne^n ne^'u co' go~ ra nu+~a thi` cha('c Nga chi? "bore" mo.i ngu+o+`i tho^i a` ...
On Nov 9, 8:32 pm, Luan Pham <loui...@gmail.com> wrote:
> On Sun, 8 Nov 2009 19:16:09 -0800 (PST), nttn <nttn1...@yahoo.com> > wrote:
> >nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > >feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > >give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > >you might lose that person ...
> >ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> >i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > >do that ... for me!!'
> Cai nay co phai Honey Doo khong.
i' da ... dda^u co' ngo+` Lua^n pha' va^.y ta :)))
> > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > others ...
> > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > that?
> > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > else either ...
> > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > hy vo.ng Nga dda~ tra? lo+`i ddu+o+.c pha^`n na`o ca^u ho?i cu?a > > > ba'c ...
> > > nn
> > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > nhe' ... :)
> Nga dda~ ba('t dda^`u go~ go~ the^m va`i ddie^`u dde^? share vo+'i > ba'c ... tuy nhie^n nghi~ la.i ... ca'i topic na`y thi` cha('c ai > cu~ng dda~ tra?i qua ro^`i cho ne^n ne^'u co' go~ ra nu+~a thi` cha('c > Nga chi? "bore" mo.i ngu+o+`i tho^i a` ...
> > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > that?
> > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > else either ...
> > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > nhe' ... :)
> > Nga dda~ ba('t dda^`u go~ go~ the^m va`i ddie^`u dde^? share vo+'i > > ba'c ... tuy nhie^n nghi~ la.i ... ca'i topic na`y thi` cha('c ai > > cu~ng dda~ tra?i qua ro^`i cho ne^n ne^'u co' go~ ra nu+~a thi` cha('c > > Nga chi? "bore" mo.i ngu+o+`i tho^i a` ...
da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > ba`.
yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga la.i hoang mang ...
have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a memory :))))))
> > > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > > that?
> > > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > > else either ...
> > > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > > nhe' ... :)
> > > Nga dda~ ba('t dda^`u go~ go~ the^m va`i ddie^`u dde^? share vo+'i > > > ba'c ... tuy nhie^n nghi~ la.i ... ca'i topic na`y thi` cha('c ai > > > cu~ng dda~ tra?i qua ro^`i cho ne^n ne^'u co' go~ ra nu+~a thi` cha('c > > > Nga chi? "bore" mo.i ngu+o+`i tho^i a` ...
> da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i > xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
> cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n > tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> > Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > > ba`.
> yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... > it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at > times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
> the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
> still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n > muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> > No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
> woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ > vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga > la.i hoang mang ...
> have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
> Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` > tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a > memory :))))))
> > > > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > > > that?
> > > > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > > > else either ...
> > > > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > > > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > > > nhe' ... :)
> > da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i > > xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
> > cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n > > tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> > > Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > > > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > > > ba`.
> > yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... > > it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at > > times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
> > the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
> > still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n > > muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> > > No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > > > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
> > woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ > > vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga > > la.i hoang mang ...
> > have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
> > Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` > > tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a > > memory :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > > > > that?
> > > > > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > > > > else either ...
> > > > > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > > > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > > > > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > > > > nhe' ... :)
> > > da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i > > > xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
> > > cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n > > > tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> > > > Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > > > > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > > > > ba`.
> > > yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... > > > it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at > > > times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
> > > the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
> > > still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n > > > muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> > > > No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > > > > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
> > > woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ > > > vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga > > > la.i hoang mang ...
> > > have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
> > > Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` > > > tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a > > > memory :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > > > > > that?
> > > > > > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > > > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > > > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > > > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > > > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > > > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > > > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > > > > > else either ...
> > > > > > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > > > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > > > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > > > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > > > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > > > > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > > > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > > > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > > > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > > > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > > > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > > > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > > > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > > > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > > > > > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > > > > > nhe' ... :)
> > > > da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i > > > > xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
> > > > cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n > > > > tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> > > > > Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > > > > > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > > > > > ba`.
> > > > yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... > > > > it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at > > > > times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
> > > > the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
> > > > still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n > > > > muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> > > > > No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > > > > > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
> > > > woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ > > > > vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga > > > > la.i hoang mang ...
> > > > have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
> > > > Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` > > > > tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a > > > > memory :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > > > Love , but not sex, is borderless, limitless, and ageless huh?
> > > > > > > > > > > believe it or not ... i DO believe in love ... TOTALLY ... for IT can > > > > > > > > > > > be the force that could move one to do thing beyond > > > > > > > > > > > imagination :))))
> > > > > > > > > > > having said that ... Nga ca^`n pha?i no'i the^m la` Nga believe in the > > > > > > > > > > > kind of love that can motive one to move mountain ... for the sake of > > > > > > > > > > > others ...
> > > > > > > > > > > NOT the kind that ... 'Ooooh ... you make me feel sooooooooo good" ... > > > > > > > > > > > dde^? ro^`i khi ngu+o+`i kia kho^ng co`n la`m cho mi`nh to+ lo+ mo+ nu > > > > > > > > > > > +~a thi` cu~ng ba'i bai "love" ... :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > > and yes ... love is borderless ... limitless ... and ageless ... and > > > > > > > > > > > beyond words ... and NO regrets either :))))))
> > > > > > > > > > I just said that but never had a chance to really falling in love in > > > > > > > > > > order to actually undestand what love means. Did you really? How was > > > > > > > > > > that?
> > > > > > > > > are you serious ... or are you just pulling my leg ho+? ba'c ht????
> > > > > > > > > still ... the answer is yes ... many times ... ke^? tu+` lu'c co`n be > > > > > > > > > be' la^.n ... :))
> > > > > > > > > falling in love is only the first stage ... but to actually understand > > > > > > > > > and KNOW what love means... ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... takes a long time ... > > > > > > > > > and sometimes ... near a life time to really "get" it ...
> > > > > > > > > nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > > > > > > > > > feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > > > > > > > > > give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > > > > > > > > > you might lose that person ...
> > > > > > > > > ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> > > > > > > > > i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > > > > > > > > > do that ... for me!!'
> > > > > > > > > that sounds more like blackmailing to me :))))))
> > > > > > > > > i don't believe in making a person choosing me over somebody/something > > > > > > > > > else either ...
> > > > > > > > > i want someone to love me for who i am ... thus i want to love someone > > > > > > > > > for who he is ... NOT who i want him to be ...
> > > > > > > > > va` mo^.t khi dda~ co^' ga('ng he^'t su+'c mi`nh ma` ro^`i things > > > > > > > > > don't work out ... sometimes the best solution is to let the person > > > > > > > > > you love go ... set him/her free ... and hoping somehow ... that > > > > > > > > > person could find comfort and true happiness somewhere else ...
> > > > > > > > > last but not least ... love does not mean one is being blind to the > > > > > > > > > other person's fault though ... for that would be enabling that person > > > > > > > > > to continue to behave that way ... true love at times would force one > > > > > > > > > to be tough ... no matter how much it might hurt ... :(((((
> > > > > > > > > ca'i topic na`y ma` ra'ng no'i trong va`i paragraph thi` cha('c kho^ng > > > > > > > > > no^?i ... ba'c ht cho phe'p Nga post la.i hai ddoa?n va(n Nga vie^'t > > > > > > > > > dda~ la^u la('m ro^`i ... about two different type of love ... and yet > > > > > > > > > they are both equally important to me :)
> > > > > > > > > ps/ and no regrets ... whatsoever ... :))))
> > > > > > > > Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. > > > > > > > > Cannot pulling your leg on this serious subject. What I got and later > > > > > > > > found out was just what people call infatuation (infactuation). Never > > > > > > > > really had a chance to have a real lasting love (maybe too chicken to > > > > > > > > be in because afraid of being hurt). > > > > > > > > Or maybe I never had a chance to let love being developed and grow. > > > > > > > > Ca^y si bi. tu+o+'i nu+o+'c so^i ;-(( > > > > > > > > Well, maybe one day, who knows. You never know; I saw it happens in > > > > > > > > the nursing home, as well :-))
> > > > > > > da. ... chuye^.n trong nursing home cu~ng de^~ thu+o+ng la('m > > > > > > > nhe' ... :)
> > > > > da. ta.i Nga co' ta^.t ... co' ca'i gi` trong dda^`u ... ngo^`i > > > > > xuo^'ng keyboard thi` no' theo keyboard ra tha`nh chu+~ he^'t ... :))
> > > > > cho ne^n ho^m qua lo^.c co^.c cho dda~ ... ddo.c la.i ... tu+. nhie^n > > > > > tha^'y sao sao ddo' ... cho ne^n Nga la.i xo'a ddi :)
> > > > > > Chuye^.n nursing home thi` chu+a co' ai trong na`y tra?i qua dda^u, nhu > > > > > > +ng so+'m muo^.n gi` cu~ng pha?i ddi qua tru+o+'c khi ve^` vo+'i o^ng > > > > > > ba`.
> > > > > yeah ... dda^u pha?i muo^'n theo o^ng ba` la` de^~ dda^u ba'c ... > > > > > it's the journey and process of going through that stage that ... at > > > > > times ... could be painful and heartbreaking ... :(
> > > > > the^' cho ne^n Nga mo+'i open up va` share vo+'i ba'c ddo' chu+' ...
> > > > > still ... it's a public forum ... Nga muo^'n make sure ba'c va^~n > > > > > muo^'n tie^'p tu.c tru+o+'c khi Nga go~ tie^'p :))
> > > > > > No'i tha^.t ddo'. Ta'nh tui hay no'i tha(?ng, kho^ng pha?i vo`ng vo > > > > > > tam quo^'c dda^u, cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?
> > > > > woww ... tru+` khi Nga really off the mark here ... khi ba'c dda~ > > > > > vie^'t ca'i ca^u "cha('c Nga nho+' "anh ... suck" cho+' gi`?" la`m Nga > > > > > la.i hoang mang ...
> > > > > have we "met" somewhere in the cyber space before???
> > > > > Nga chi? bie^'t co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i vo+'i ca'i nick "....suck" ma` > > > > > tho^i ... but then ... it's part of the past and will always be ... a > > > > > memory :))))))
>> >nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" >> >feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to >> >give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... >> >you might lose that person ...
>> >ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
>> >i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or >> >do that ... for me!!'
>> Cai nay co phai Honey Doo khong.
> i' da ... dda^u co' ngo+` Lua^n pha' va^.y ta :)))
Lau lau choc mot chut cho vui vay thoi. Moi lan anh Linh dem Honey Dew ve, thi bi Luan choc nhu vay. Cho nen moi lan ve anh Linh khong dem theo trai cay nua.
> On Mon, 9 Nov 2009 20:11:40 -0800 (PST), nttn <nttn1...@yahoo.com> > wrote:
> >> >nhu+ Nga co' no'i ... kho^ng pha?i chi? la` ca'i "pitter-patter" > >> >feeling in one's heart ... but also the comfort and willingness to > >> >give the other person his/her room to grow ... even if it means ... > >> >you might lose that person ...
> >> >ddo^'i vo+'i Nga ... love is NOT ownership ... or "territory" ...
> >> >i don't believe in saying ... "if you love me then you will do this or > >> >do that ... for me!!'
> >> Cai nay co phai Honey Doo khong.
> > i' da ... dda^u co' ngo+` Lua^n pha' va^.y ta :)))
> Lau lau choc mot chut cho vui vay thoi. Moi lan anh Linh dem Honey > Dew ve, thi bi Luan choc nhu vay. Cho nen moi lan ve anh Linh khong > dem theo trai cay nua.
te' ra ca'i joke na`y la` tu+` anh Linh ma` ra ho+? Lua^n ?? hmm ... wonder??? :))))
nha('c dde^'n anh Linh, Nga mo+'i cho+.t nho+' ra ddie^`u na` y... la^`n cuo^'i cu`ng Nga ga(.p anh Linh la` va`o khoa?ng 1984 ddo' ... :))
lu'c ddo' Nga kha'm pha' ra anh Linh cu~ng co' apply ca'i job o+? Health Department. ho^m Nga va`o interview la` lu'c anh Linh mo+'i xong ... cho ne^n Nga mo+'i bie^'t ddu+o+.c la` anh Linh co' applied cho ca'i job ddo' ...
>Nga chi? so+. ba` boss hired ngu+o+`i na`o ma` Nga kho^ng ho+.p >ti'nh ... cho ne^n ... hihihi ... ho^`i ddo' cu+' du. ba` boss cho.n >anh Linh ddi ...
Cai nay thi Luan biet. Boi vi Luan co bao gio gap Nga dau, ma chi nge Bo ke ve Bac thoi. Luan se chuyen loi Nga hoi tham toi Anh Linh khi anh ve an Ga Tay.
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